You might have already suspected your wife having an extra-marital affair but without meeting the elements of adultery and not presenting any tangible evidence will render accusations useless. As defined under Article 333 of the Revised Penal Code, “Adultery is committed by any married woman who shall have sexual intercourse with a man not her husband and by the man, who has carnal knowledge of her knowing her to be married, even is the marriage be subsequently declared void.”

The Elements of Adultery

1. The woman is married;
2. The woman had sexual intercourse with a man not her husband;
3. The man she had sexual intercourse is aware that she is married.

The Crime of Adultery Can Be Filed If:

1. The married woman engages in sexual intercourse with a man not her husband;
2. The man is aware of the marriage of the woman, but still engages in sexual intercourse with her.

The offended spouse should be the one to file a case of adultery against the offending spouse. Unlike the criminal offenses of rape acts of lasciviousness, seduction and abduction, no one else can file a case of adultery on behalf of the offended spouse.

In adultery, proof of sexual intercourse is enough to file a case against the wife and her lover. If proven guilty, the woman may face imprisonment from 2 years, 4 months and 1 day to 6 years. However, if the crime was committed due to the abandonment by the offended spouse, the offending parties will face imprisonment from 6 months and 1 day to 2 years and 4 months. If the husband chooses to pardon his wife, the offending party will be absolved of the crime of adultery and the offended party can no longer charge her.

To grant pardon to the offending party, the pardon should come before the institution of the criminal prosecution and both offenders must be pardoned and not just the wife.

" Art. 333. Who are guilty of adultery. — Adultery is committed by any married woman who shall have sexual intercourse with a man not her husband and by the man who has carnal knowledge of her knowing her to be married, even if the marriage be subsequently declared void.

Adultery shall be punished by prision correccional in its medium and maximum periods.

If the person guilty of adultery committed this offense while being abandoned without justification by the offended spouse, the penalty next lower in degree than that provided in the next preceding paragraph shall be imposed."

Annulment is the only option that is available to Filipino couples who wish to end their marriage. Since the legalization of divorce is far from happening, considering the fact that the process of passing a divorce bill is difficult, the only way couples can find a way out of problematic marriages is by seeking annulment. However, annulments are also expensive and come with a number of processes such as seeking assistance from legal counsel in filing petitions. 

Under Article 45 of The family Code of the Philippines, marriage can be annulled due to the following reasons: 

• Fraud

• Psychological incapacity

• Lack of parental consent

• Impotence or physical incapability that is affect the marriage 

• Consent of marriage was obtained by intimidation or force 

• Serious sexually transmitted disease 

The major fees for filling for a petition for annulment of marriage: 

• Filing Fees

The first step to take when seeking an annulment is to file for a Petition for Annulment of Marriage, which will be filed before Office of the Executive Clerk of Courts of the Regional Trial Courts of the city or province that you have been residing for at least a six months. 

• Acceptance Fees

Once the case is filed, the firm will charge an acceptance fee for taking on your case. The charges will vary from firm to firm. Some smaller firms have lower fees than bigger firms. 

• Pleading Fees

When filing for a petition for  annulment of marriage, you will be required to submit documents such as judicial affidavits, petrial briefs and others. You are more likely to submit at least 10 pleading and the fees will depend on the number of documents you submit.

• Appearance Fees

The lawyer need to go to court for a scheduled hearing and you will need to pay a fee for every appearance. On average, annulment cases have at least 7 appearances. 

• Psychiatrist/Doctor Fees

If the petition for annulment of marriage was filed due to psychological incapacity, a psychological report from a psychiatrist or doctor must be presented as proof of psychological incapacity. Doctors or psychiatrists are also made to testify in court as well. 

Aside from these above-mentioned fees, there are other costs that filing for a petition for annulment may incur. The cost can still increase if the process drags on or if there are some additional requirements that can lead to more appearances and pleadings. 

The processing time varies from location to location. On average, it will take around 2 years  to conclude a case for nullity of marriage. It may take longer if there are some complications especially if there are properties involved.

When filing a petition for annulment, several grounds will be looked into in order to find out whether or not such grounds carry weight that will strengthen the case. Infidelity is one of the most common reasons for filing a case, but it is not considered a ground for annulment. Infidelity can only be an acceptable basis for legal separation or filing a case for concubinage or adultery. In fact, infidelity cannot be used as a sole deciding factor in granting custody over a child. 

Under Revised Penal Code, Article 333, adultery refers to an extra marital relationship of a woman to a man other than her husband even if the man is well aware that the she is already married. A crime of adultery is committed for each sexual intercourse that takes place.

Under Article 334 of the Revised Penal Code or RPC, concubinage refers to the cohabitation of a married man with a mistress in the same or conjugal dwelling or an involvement of a married man with a woman who is not his wife in any other place. The sexual intercourse of the married man to the concubine took place under scandalous circumstance. 

Adultery VS Concubinage 

• Adultery is committed by a wife and should be charged together with the other man, while concubinage is committed by a husband and should be charged together with the other woman or concubine. 

• In adultery, a proof of sexual intercourse will suffice to file a case. On the other hand, concubinage cannot be pursued without proving that the sexual intercourse happened under scandalous circumstances. The case can be passed off as concubinage if cohabitation happens in the conjugal dwelling or in any other place. 

• Concubinage has lower penalty than adultery and the concubine’s penalty is only destierro, which refers to banishment or prohibition from residing within the accused party’s actual residence. The distance should be within the radius of 25 kilometers and banishment will be given for a specified length of time. In adultery the penalty for the man is the same as that of the guilty wife. 

The spouse who has been offended is the only person entitled for filing the action for concubinage or adultery provided, the marital status is present at the time the case was filed. The parties that will be prosecuted, if found guilty should be the offending spouse and the paramour, if both are still alive. 

If the offended spouse has pardoned the offenders, the case cannot be pursued and the criminal charge cannot prosper. Pardon can be implied or express. Express pardon is done in writing and serves as an affidavit that the offenders are pardoned for their act. The implied pardon is when the offended party chooses to live with his or her spouse, even after the offense’s commission. Pardon should be obtained or given before the criminal action’s institution.

In the Philippines married couples have two options to put an end to marital union: annulment and legal separation. While divorce advocates have been fighting for the legalization of divorce in the Philippines, there is no sign yet that people who want it legalized will emerge victorious. However, it is a different scenario in Muslim Mindanao or in Islamic laws to be more specific. In fact, Islamic laws grant three kinds of divorce and each of them has separate rules. These three kinds of divorce are talaq, li’an and khula. 

Islamic divorce in Mindanao defined: 

1. Talaq

In a talaq divorce, the Muslim husband initiates a divorce and pronounces the word talaq (I divorce you)  to his wife, but this can be withdrawn if both parties decide for reconciliation.  The word talaq can only be withdrawn twice and divorce will be considered irrevocable the third time the word is pronounced. In order to complete irrevocable divorce, the husband needs to comply with the requirements. 

2. Khula

Khula gives a woman the right to seek a divorce. The woman must also follow a waiting period and as compared to the right of men to initiate divorce, women’s rights are only limited. Women will be granted divorce if the husband failed to provide her basic needs or if there was no intercourse taking place for more than two months. Women must also repay marriage expenses and her dowry. If the child is older than seven years, the woman who seeks a divorce will not be granted child custody. However, the custody will be granted if the child is below seven years. By the time the child reaches the age of seven, the woman must give full custody to the father.  

3. Lian

Lian is also referred to as mulaana and this type of divorce is initiated when the husband accused the wife of adultery. This divorce is based on Quranic verses. There are three conditions that must be met for the husband to initiate Lian:

• The marriage state must be continuing.

• The marriage must be valid and there should be witnesses when the marriage was solemnized. 

• The husband must be liable to become a witness and has not received any punishment of qazf in the past. 

The financial obligations in divorce will also dependent on the length of marriage. The income levels of either the husband or the wife will also be taken into consideration. Once divorce is granted, the Islamic laws will apply wherein the wife is not entitled to the assets that have been earned during marriage.